Sled dogs and rescued kids, the story of Medicinedogs and the kids who came to love them.
(Published in Mushing
Magazine, 2009)
In 1989 a notion
took place in my mind, a notion that had been brewing for quite some time. It
had to do with kids and dogs and healing hearts, minds and souls. It had to do
with putting something back together that had been torn apart….. And about the
process of doing that with a dog, or two…
Having grown up with Sled dogs I guess I took for granted
how amazing and talented they are in so many different ways besides pulling a
dog sled or any other number of outdoor sports that they are just great
at.. Of course, when I was a kid, I
thought a sled dog was a stiff, tottering old dog with a lot of fur and
cataracts. My grandmother had sent us
her retired huskies for years, to bask in the sun and lounge on a couch as they
enjoyed old age. It wasn’t until I was
grown with a young son that I began to build a team of my own. But the potential these amazing athletes
really have in so many different areas led me on an adventure that I want to
share with others, an adventure of healing the hearts of growing minds and
bodies. It’s also true that a few wayward adults got some much needed mending
along the way as well!
The first thing I noticed was that my sled dogs sure seemed
to attract a lot of attention- and especially from kids. Picking up my 7 year old son from school, a
daily routine, was at times a lengthy affair, as the kids had to pet my dogs,
and ask questions. It was fun for me to see their bright faces, as I always
bring a few dogs with me everywhere. They wanted to kiss and hug and pet them –
really a lot. Soon this lead to sled
dogs coming to school for show and tell.
And then to rest homes, and then, to the classes of special needs
children. Although the students were
initially excited, teachers remarked that kids became calm in the presence of
the dogs, and after our visits, seemed to sit more quietly and focus on school
work with a renewed zest. My notion evolved. Of course, I already new that dogs
of any breed could probably accomplish this, but I didn’t have just any breed,
I had Alaskan Huskies, just good old fashioned northern sled dogs. As I thought
about it-I realized that my dogs had been doing this work for a while now.
Years earlier, my son, diagnosed with severe asthma, slept in a oxygen tent
with a sled dog. My sister, an
epileptic, had one by her side all the time.
Neighbor kids who were going through drama and trauma congregated at our
house and spent hours with the dogs. Kids and dogs were always hanging
out. There was sort of an unofficial
understanding between kids and the dogs, kids learning how to handle dogs and
how to train, and all the while the dogs were learning too. The dogs were learning about lots of
different kinds of kids with lots of diverse challenges. I discovered they
loved all kids, although they seemed to have a natural bend in the direction of
a child who really needed help.
Medicinedogs in Alaska
Years and generations
of dogs later, my son grown and in college, I moved to Alaska.
So why not make this notion I had been working on, a more official
situation? How could I help the most emotionally challenged kids? How could I
get kids and dogs together? I decided to become a licensed foster parent. I went through the training, had my home
approved, and waited for my first charge to be assigned to me. I didn’t have to wait long. I named my kennel, “Medicinedogs” and had a
sign made at the fair. Pretty soon a
little boy arrived at my home. He was
very small for his age, and had been through a great deal, I would be his third
attempt at a foster home. He was very hesitant as he climbed out of the social
worker’s car. He leaned over and peeked
around the open car door, I waved. He waved back. He and the social worker made the rather long
walk down a rather plank like walk to my front porch. He made it almost all the way to the front door
when my older very large male dog barked. The boy jumped back, afraid
immediately. But I could see the
excitement in his eyes too. “You have a dog!?”
“Yes, several,” I explained, “I am a dog musher and I have
sled dogs.” He was already overcoming
his own fear just to get in the front door to see, “the dog”. All 120 lbs. of him! He was extremely wowed! Well, this particular
dog had wowed a lot of folks; he was a large dog that harkened back to the old
trap line dogs. Tall and long, with lots of fur, he had once been an imposing
figure. He was a gentle giant in his later years however, albeit with a big
bark! He had given much comfort to many
already, and my new foster son was in
love.
Life was not going to be so easy over the next few
weeks. The old dog and I had our work
cut out for us. Our new charge had fears and issues and lots of anxiety. He was
sad and angry and homesick-I often remember how much a real bridge my big old
dog was for the boy and his nightmares. He missed his family immensely,
especially his siblings. Miko went to bed with him and got him up in the
morning. If Miko were in the room, he was cooperative. He would eat, dress and
pick up after himself. If he became
frustrated, Miko intervened, often stopping a full blown tantrum with his huge
soft brown eyes and tail that waved back and forth very slowly. And when I had a short temper, Miko also
intervened, letting me know I needed to relax and have patience. Calm was what was needed, and calm is what
the dog insisted on. And believe me, what the dog wanted, he got, when it came
to the boy! After a few months, it was time
to move on to other dogs with other gifts.
And it was time for the young man to rescue a dog, to be the one to
rescue another. And he did.
After teaching Todd to feed and clean and water dogs, how to
cook fish broth and soak kibble, how to harness and use equipment, It was time
for him to have his own dog. I arranged
for Todd to rescue a little deaf puppy we named Olo, short for Olowan. Olo was
a special needs pup and needed lots of looking after. Todd taught sign to Olo,
and was responsible for teaching him how to be in a house, on a leash, and
finally in harness. It was wonderful to see the changes come to the boy, and
the pride he had in the dogs and in his own ability to reach for small
accomplishments such as remembering how to harness, and who runs next to whom,
what trail went where. And he became very good at understanding the dogs needs,
and communicating with them. The dogs
responded to him with wagging tails and happy short barks, eager eyes. His
pleasure and happiness peaked when he realized how much they enjoyed working
with him. He started to excel at school.
He read as many books as he could get a hold of on dogs.
Todd’s brother and later sister came to live with us. All of
them started with Miko and graduated to a rescued dog, and then began to work
with the team. They learned how to run
small teams of dogs, and had a sense of what was going on with dogs. They took
on more rescued dogs and found homes for them.
Todd realized that our team dogs had a lot to offer the rescued dogs, and
he would let a rescue run next to a team dog, or we would take a team dog and a
rescue to the dog park. If the rescued dog had fear or anxiety about the
people, other dogs, or even the truck ride, a team dog was by his side, and so
was Todd, soothing and coaching and supporting. He new that love and compassion
and patience were key. And in the process of helping dogs, Todd was healing and
becoming a whole person.
Soon Todd and his brother were going on long runs into the
woods with me. I certainly was pleased with both boys’ interest level and
progress. It was lot of fun to bring
them with me and I never had to worry about getting lost as they had developed wonderful
memories and senses of direction. It was also great having the company and helping
hands.
All in the family
Recently our youngest charge and a grandson had the
opportunity to live with me for the winter last year. He had been in special
education and had learning troubles and a hearing loss. But he also helped care
for his older brother who suffered from Autism, and so was already patient
after learning how to guide his brother. Both boys loved dogs and had spent a lot of
time with the team. Both were assigned several dogs to care for. The six year old decided he wanted to race!
But first it was learning all the basics, which took quite some time.
Harnessing seemed to be a huge struggle. He just could not remember how to
harness no matter how many times he tried. I remember how gentle little Tukaani
was with him. She had that harness on upside down backwards and inside out time
and time again. She would look at me for help and it was hard not to! Finally, after
months of practice, a tip from a friend who teaches learning disabled kids
worked wonders. She said to color each part of the harness a different color
with felt pens. And wella! The technique
worked, the young man got the hang of it and began to teach his brother. As a
matter of fact, everything he learned, he taught his older brother. It was a
way for him to reinforce what he knew. Then came racing season! The two dog class was just what the boy
needed next. He began to race those dogs he had grown to love, and they went
all the way for him. Not only did he move into a regular class in school, he
went to the top of it! He learned to
read and read well, with much inflexion and enjoyment. And his successes did not stop there; he
raced in the two dog class and won the Junior North American. At the end of the race he exclaimed, “We flew
like bird!!” He beamed with such joy and excitement. And the dogs? They were as
happy as he was! Another success for our
Medicinedogs. They sure never cease to
amaze me.
And so my notion was realized, and continues to be realized,
thanks to the dogs who are my family, and the kids who came to me. The dogs
gave unconditional love, endless patience and true companionship to those kids
in grave need of just those things, guiding them to learn to trust in the world
once again. And no matter where in the
world these kids are now days, they call on a regular basis, and ask after the
dogs, always.
In loving memory of Miko.
Wonderful words, your move to Alaska...the Wolf Kachina I sent you in Santa Cruz, from Santa Fe...This wolfie, Miko, looks like my wolfie, el Zeke. Continue on with these stories... Almaluz
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